New years pep talk from me.
Lucky you!
1. You know those people that only have you around when you want something? Those ones that never greet you or answer you or call you but otherwise only offer you attention when it benefits them? They need to go.
2. You know those people who pick on you for your flaws or mentally compete with you all the time? The ones that put you down and think they or their people do better? They need to go too.
3. You know those energy suckers? Those negative people that bitch and bitch and bitch about how horrible their lives are with no thought or actual caring to your life or wellbeing? The ones who throw out nothing more than an obligatory HOW ARE YOU before directing the conversation to them and them only?
Get rid of them too.
You see, you deserve better than mentally taxing relationships. You need to focus on those who are true to you, who you feel like benefits you and who you too can equally give valuble love to.
Find your namaste people.
A stagnate relationship is one thing, we all have and need acquaintances and old friends.
But a friendship isn't measured on length of time, money, or routine..... its measured on value and love.
Does your heart light up or smile when (this tested) person is near you?
Okay, now ask yourself why or why not?
Be around family and friends that make you feel
TOTALLY ALIVE.
They are sometimes few and far between; and things will never be exciting 100% of the time; but your heart tells you when a friendship is healthy. Sometimes it surprises you in the most oddest place in the most oddest timing.
Make sure you take care of yourself in 2016. You deserve it.
